A Love Letter to Routine

May they bring you the space you need.

I spent part of last week in San Francisco, doing some book events (thank you to everyone who came out!) and seeing some of my oldest and dearest friends. I stayed with one of them, Emily, who was my constant companion for most of my ‘20s. We worked at the same magazine and were tightly knit together both in the office and out. (In the biggest mitzvah o…