Pulling the Thread

Pulling the Thread

The Layers

"I am not who I was..."

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Elise Loehnen
Sep 06, 2023
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Several weeks ago, maybe months—what is time anyway?—I had dinner with a group of girlfriends. I was the interloper—they’ve all been best friends for decades, since they were barely scratching the surface of adulthood—and what can I say: I wanted in. Their shorthand, the easy rapport born from near-sisterhood, the way they were present with each other. …

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