Looking Past Out-There-Ness

When we locate our wanting in ourselves.

A lot of my work out in the world is connecting women with their wanting, in part because we are conditioned to subjugate our wants to other peoples’ needs. Wanting is core to our undiagnosed envy, which I’m pretty convinced is the root of a majority of woman-on-woman hate. This unconscious envy is provoked when we see someone who has something, or is d…